Domestic Violence is a gender neutral crime women and men throughout the U.S.A are experiencing. These women and men face acts of brutality, the theft of their identities, torture, and the most fatal consequence-death.
Abusers posses an extensive amount of manipulative intelligence. The honeymoon phase is a good example of manipulative intelligence. This is the phase when gifts,compliments, and affection are in abundance. Domestic predator's will profess their undying love to you, a low tactic used by abusers to perch themselves in the drivers seat of your life.When abusers become secure enough in a relationship they began to attack you in a subtle way. "Hey that skirt's too tight", "I hate your friends", Shut the hell up! Subtle attacks usually occur before the abuser's become physically abusive. Once the relationship becomes physically abusive, mustering the courage to leave gets harder. This is why leaving after the first strike is so important.
Within seconds of receiving that first devastating blow, a plan of action should be surging threw you're mind-body and soul. Obtaining distance is the goal after that first strike. You need to seek refuge in a place where you're protected,and unable to be contacted by the domestic abuser. This is where you will take pictures of any injuries, as well as decide weather or not you will involve police. Having a safe haven will remind you of how happy and free life was before that strike. Let this inspire you on the journey to eradicate you're domestic abuser indefinitely. Some will say it was only one time, and maybe you should hear them out. Don't make this crucial mistake like other's have, some of these so-called talks ended up fatalities. Continue placing obstacles between you and the abuser. Change numbers, routines, and end relationships with anyone closely connected to the abuser. If they are not aware of the abuse, a common friend could inform the abuser of your whereabouts. This can derail your entire plan-so cut all connecting ties.
In the end no plan is 100% full proof , however not taking action after the first strike is a fatal mistake. Not acting encourages domestic abuser's to continue tormenting you. As their dominance over your life grows getting out will appear impossible. The longer you stay death will be inevitable.
Manipulative Intelligence: A host of calculated tactics used by a predator to destroy self confidence& and deluded their victim.
As to my knowledge Manipulative Intelligence was used in this blog only, not located else-where& Defined by:Ray Ray-The Awareness Channel
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